Open a web browser like internet explorer or Netscape. Enter the ip address of your router in the address bar of your browser. In the picture above the address bar has http://www.google.com in it. Just replace all of that with the ip address of your router. By default the ip address should be set to 192.168.0.1.
Click the Advanced Setup link near the left side of the page.
Click the Application Level Gateway link near the left side of the page.
We will list a series of lines here that will show you exactly how to forward the ports you need to forward. Act of War - Direct Action requires you to forward the 12222 ports. Go ahead and enter the settings shown above into the Rule Management menu and then click Apply.
When you're finished, click Save and Restart near the left side of the screen to save your changes. And that's it! You're done!